Each person is different. Some people can easily mix with everyone, while there are many people in the chat of friends who can not mix easily. They are a little embarrassed, and after talking for a while, they can’t talk anymore. It is not that they enjoy the company of others. They feel more comfortable being alone for unknown reasons. And in doing so, they become isolated from everyone else, known as boring people.
You may have the desire to be like yourself, but of course you are not isolated from everyone. Because human beings are social beings, at some point this isolation will make you depressed. And if someone close to you says you’re boring, it’s hard for a lot of confident people to admit. So don’t be boring, live to be attractive to everyone.
Listen with interest when listening to others. You may not like to hear a lot of things. But gradually you will find many things that will make you happy. If you don’t listen to your loved ones, you won’t find anyone to listen to when you have something to say. So pay attention, pay attention.
Use the brain
The lazy brain finds no pleasure in anything but laziness. There are so many wonderful things in the world. Now all the door to know is open as soon as you sit on the internet. Read interesting topics, learn. You will want to know as much as you know. Willingness to share thoughts.
When someone is talking to you about something they are interested in, don’t dismiss it as ridiculous or unreasonable in the beginning. The incident may not sound good to you, but it does. Be respectful of the feelings of others. Behave positively.
Share work hours
Many can’t even give time to their friends due to work pressure. It is not possible for a tired man to come to the office in the morning and evening chatting for hours. But again your loved ones may be missing you. Even if it is not always possible, try not to miss the Get Together. Arrange to hang out at least one movie on a holiday. Let’s all go somewhere together.
Of course, there is no such thing as good for everyone. Your place of interest may be different. Make a team according to your interests to avoid isolation. Find some people like you. But remember, there is always more to know than we know. The likes of others are just different from yours, not inferior.
Your will is needed first
Do you want to be a wonderful person? Your will is needed first. You can come out of this monotonous time alone only on your own will.
How to be interesting in conversation
* Start talking according to the interest of the person you are talking to
* If you are also involved in the subject, then talk more. Refrain from giving advice without knowing it.
* Ask them about their ideas, why they want to do what they want to do, how they want to do it.
* Try to talk about fun.
How to be interesting without talking
* Create eye contact.
* Be confident in behavior. If you see something new, make an immediate decision without hesitation.
* Wear appropriate clothing according to the place you are going.